Our view of God the Father is shaped (or distorted) by the view we have of our father, and we must learn how to be fathers by getting to know our Heavenly Father through His Word. This informs how we father our children, and they learn a lot about God the Father through us. As they grow in their faith, they must also learn about their Heavenly Father through His Word, and help shape the view of God for their children.
]]>I think it was Freud that talked about the “God the Father” concept being our idealised conception of a father projected onto the sky. Another way of saying the same thing is that when we read the word father in the bible we invest in that word all of our own hopes, fears, desires, and prejudices.
The bible really works the other way around and so should we as fathers. The word father in the Bible is defined by God’s acts and their records in the Bible itslef. So, to turn your definition around, God defines Fatherhood with qualities of “abba” and qualities of “pursuing” or “punishing”, etc. We learn to be fathers (with a little f) when we watch our Father (with a big F) deal with his children in Israel.
After that we have to work our own path. That might be lego or it might be soccer or it might be (even) hunting. In either case we are asked to reflect our true Father in Heaven by our many acts of fatherhood here with our children.
]]>PS: I also think kids desire this type of parenting. If not, they spend too much time searching for the boundaries, for the details of the rules… Step up and show them the rules… inform them of the issues… put them on the right path… then get back to playing with them. Love them. Share with them.
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